Normally, what you have in the industry is the smallest inverter gate possible in the technology as the base load and driver. The other inverters with more driving capabilities are just geometrically wider. The rest of the other logic gates are a bit more complicated, but they are classified as their driving capability to the base load inverter. Nothing fancy. This is how standard cells are classified, as integer numbers as multipliers.
Now, if you are talking about longer wires connecting gates, where their load is comparable to logic gates' input capacitances, then you should do some calculations to optimize a circuit. Anyway, you need to calculate and optimize logic gates only for custom circuits. Physical synthesis software is your friend.