1-2) These are my simulation result, which I use to design my project. The suggestion I wanted to make was, that you design your testchip accordingly (clock generation, etc.), so that you can verify these numbers on silicon. We are talking about 300MHz plus.
3) We had this discussion before, and if I understand it correctly, based on that Andrew added some tests for this during silicon characterization. The understanding at that time was, that writes\reads at the same cycle are valid. But I simulated it afterwards and found problems for small SRAMs (RF-size). So my proposal would be to include a small SRAM on the testchip to verify this behavior on silicon.